It is well defined that fear is at the crux of so many stuck moments also in success.We may often complain instead of solve. Let others decide our fate. Avoid new experiences. Give up dreams.
MAKING THE MOST OF FAILURE
Fear, whatever it is , is about avoiding some kind of failure. But what’s so bad about failure? Everyone experiences it. However, not everyone learns from it.
When you make a mistake or fail at a project, do you:
Cover your paths?Own up and move on?Blame other people or things?Figure out what went wrong with you?
Failure is an opportunity to find out what’s necessary to succeed. "No one wants to learn by mistakes, but we cannot learn enough from successes to go beyond the state of the art," writes Henry Petroski, engineering professor and author of "To Engineer Is Human: The Role of Failure in Successful Design."
By seeing failure as a starting point, you neutralize the fear that comes with it. And without fear, you’re free to carry on !
In the post are four (plusone indirect) big takeaways:
Fear is one of the strongest behavioral motivators, so use it to your advantage!
Fear of regret is the one fear almost all successful people have.
You can consciously create the fear of regret to fuel your motivation.
Successful people are not afraid to use their negative emotions to reach their goals.
Carola - Accountant at just4dentist